Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last | 
| Author: John Gottman
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Category: Book
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Sales Rank: 6874
Media: Paperback
Edition: 1
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 240
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Dimensions (in): 8.5 x 5.6 x 0.7
ISBN: 0684802414
Dewey Decimal Number: 306
EAN: 9780684802411
ASIN: 0684802414
Publication Date: June 1, 1995
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Condition: Cover and page edges show light wear. The pages are clean.
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If You Love Your Mate but Your Marriage Seems to Be Off Track, Then This Book Is for YouPsychologist John Gottman has spent 20 years studying what makes a marriage last. Now you can use his tested methods to evaluate, strengthen, and maintain your own long-term relationship. This breakthrough book guides you through a series of self-tests designed to help you determine what kind of marriage you have, where your strengths and weaknesses are, and what specific actions you can take to help your marriage. You'll also learn: * More sex doesn't necessarily improve a marriage * Frequent arguing will not lead to divorce * Financial problems do not always spell trouble in a relationship * Wives who make sour facial expressions when their husbands talk are likely to be separated within four years * There is a reason husbands withdraw from arguments -- and there's a way around it Dr. Gottman tells you how to recognize attitudes that doom a marriage -- contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling -- and provides practical exercises, quizzes, tips, and techniques that will help you understand and make the most of your relationship. You can avoid patterns that lead to divorce, and -- Why Marriages Succeed or Fail will show you how.
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 Why Marriages Succed or Fail July 10, 2008
If you are wanting excellent and easy reading on marriage, commonications and relationships in general buy any and everything by John Gottman
Why Marriages Succeed Or Fail - John Gottman July 2, 2008
This book provides excellent advice that is laid out logically, and is easy to understand and implement. A few simple changes can improve how your interact with your spouse.
This book succeeds! June 27, 2008
I use this book in working with couples planning to marry or when couples struggle, and they ALWAYS find answers. Gottman's style is respectable and accessible for "everyman," while still maintaining heady content for professionals. I recommend it for couples looking to learn better fighting styles and communication patterns, for pastors and professionals who work with couples in trouble, and for people trying to set the rules before they actually play the game. Great text!
Extensively Researched with Great Insights! June 13, 2008
John Gottman is a respected expert on relationships who has done extensive research with married couples over the past two decades to determine why couples stay together or part. Although Gottman's book is about marriage, it also has some excellent insights for understanding some of the important dynamics of long-term courting relationships. The book provides many exercises, quizzes, techniques and tips to understand and improve courting relationships.
Gottman notes that his years of research show that a lasting marriage results from a couple's ability to resolve the conflicts that are inevitable in any relationship. He also notes that there are three different styles of conflict resolution that healthy couples usually adopt. They are: the validating marriage (couples compromise and calmly work out their problems attempting to satisfy both people), the conflict-avoiding marriage (couples agree to disagree and rarely confront issues head on), and the volatile marriage (couples conflict often and the results are passionate disputes).
John Gottman also discusses what he calls "The Four Horseman of the Apocalypse." These are the dangerous ways of interacting that sabotage attempts to communicate. They are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling.
Well written and informative, Gottman's research has uncovered some worthwhile and thought provoking ideas on long-term relationships. Understanding these concepts can be helpful when trying to understand oneself and when exploring long-term compatibility with a companion.
I found many useful concepts throughout the book. Overall a powerful work on strenthening relationships!
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Recommended by a Professional June 2, 2008
This book was recommended by our Marriage Counselor. We went through counseling 5 years ago, and have had a wonderful marriage ever since. This book (at least ideas from it), helped tremendously... but you have to read it together, open up your mind to all ideas, take it to heart, and be willing to change.
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