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Beyond Time-Out: From Chaos to Calm | 
| Authors: Beth A. Grosshans, Janet H. Burton Publisher: Sterling Category: Book
List Price: $19.95 Buy New: $12.93 You Save: $7.02 (35%)
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Avg. Customer Rating: 13 reviews Sales Rank: 16426
Media: Hardcover Number Of Items: 1 Pages: 336 Shipping Weight (lbs): 1.4 Dimensions (in): 8.9 x 6.2 x 1.4
ISBN: 1402752970 Dewey Decimal Number: 649.64 EAN: 9781402752971 ASIN: 1402752970
Publication Date: June 3, 2008 Availability: Usually ships in 1-2 business days Shipping: International shipping available Condition: BRAND NEW
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The covers of such magazines as Time and Newsweek have described parents as living in “mayhem” and “madness” with their children. TV’s Supernanny regularly captures kids wildly, unbelievably out of control. How did our families get to such a state? Child psychologist Dr. Beth Grosshans has the answer. And mothers and fathers everywhere are listening. In what is sure to become a much-discussed blockbuster, Dr. Grosshans reveals why she believes nearly a half-century of parenting advice—with its emphasis on talking, exalting children’s self-esteem, and time-outs—is largely to blame for today’s lack of discipline. Her innovative ideas and techniques challenge this prevailing culture, proving that power and authority are as essential as love and good intentions to effective parenting. She persuasively explains why kids can only grow up healthy and strong when firmly led by their parents’ experience and better judgment, and provides a clear, easy five step program to follow. She enables parents to look at themselves clearly and identify their child-rearing style; they are often shocked to discover how their own behavior has inadvertently caused an imbalance in the family’s structure. Reading Beyond Time-Out is akin to sitting with Dr. Grosshans in her clinical office—and her core truths about healthy parent-child relationships are timeless.
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Read all parenting books with a grain of salt September 18, 2008 0 out of 1 found this review helpful
OK, OK, some people love this book, others hate it. You know what? Books don't raise kids, people do, and every child is different. I have read a wide range of parenting books, running the gamut from the "tough" approach to the "gentle." I won't waste my time with anything that advocates corporal punishment, but what I will do is consider the wide range of opinions and approaches. Then I will apply what I think will work for my child. That's my job as a parent - not just read a single book and do everything it says. Also, don't forget, this book is really aimed at families that are already in deep and need to dig back out. Much of it is common sense and affirms what we are already doing. Some of it included practical tips we can use if we need to. In the meantime, we have a thriving, independent, anything-but-shy child who we aim to keep that way through freedom with boundaries, guidance when needed, and time-outs (and beyond) when required.
What a load of Junk September 12, 2008 1 out of 3 found this review helpful
This book is for crackpots who want to have "power" over the children. This book is not founded in any research, studies, hell is there even a parent survey to see if the ladder works? Can we get one APA reference? Be careful. There is nothing Montessori about this book. What about the free will of the child? Read this if you want to be attacked as a parent and create a little drone that only says yes. Come on parents, your children are humans, free thinkers and have spirits of their own.
Beyond Timeout - From Chaos to Calm August 25, 2008 2 out of 3 found this review helpful
Beyond Time-Out: From Chaos to Calm This is an excellent book for anyone wanting parenting techniques that are effective with children to establish order and joy in child rearing. Simple steps to put into practical use!
A Bible for all Parents August 16, 2008 3 out of 4 found this review helpful
This book is a must have reference for parents. Whether you have 1, 2 or 5 kids, finally a book that gives you the language you need to get your children to be better listeners, better sleepers, better behaved all around. This book teaches you to stop the empty threats; advises you to stop the constant reasoning and explaining to your kids; lets you know what type of parent you are and how to change bad habits; and most importantly teaches you step by step what words to use for effective parenting. The results are AMAZING. You will become a calm, matter of fact parent instead of an out of control frustrated parent. Stop the madness and teach and lead your kids by example into respectful, self controlled and happy behavior.
Must Read for Parents Who Take the Job Seriously August 13, 2008 3 out of 4 found this review helpful
As a grandparent I could only wish I had this book when I was parenting. My kids will all get copies because this smart book is the most sensible, clear and effective exposition about how our current generation of children have gotten out of control and what can be done about it. I taught parenting courses on the University level in the 70's and 80's. All that advice about listening to kids, building self esteem, empathizing with children's feelings, and creating democratic families has become distorted to the point where we've gone overboard as a culture in letting our kids take the reins in family affairs. My own grandchild, age 7, recently said that when it comes to family problems, "I can't fix things. That's for the adults to do. I am only a kid." This book puts things back into perspective and gets right to the point of how to save these little people from being victims of having too much power to make decisions and choices that are way beyond their developmental abilities and experience. The PLAN OF ACTION outlined here, makes the parents responsible for guiding children who need to know that someone with wisdom and experience is in charge of their welfare. This is a "must" for anyone who takes their job of parenting seriously.
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