Helping Me Help Myself: One Skeptic, Ten Self-Help Gurus, and a Year on the Brink of the Comfort Zone | 
| Author: Beth Lisick Publisher: William Morrow Category: Book
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Media: Hardcover Number Of Items: 1 Pages: 288 Shipping Weight (lbs): 2.5 Dimensions (in): 9.1 x 6.2 x 1.3
ISBN: 0061143960 Dewey Decimal Number: 818.5409 EAN: 9780061143960 ASIN: 0061143960
Publication Date: January 1, 2008 Availability: Usually ships in 1-2 business days Shipping: Expedited shipping available Condition: MINOR DUST JACKET WEAR; SMALL BUMP ON FRONT COVER; PAGES ARE IN EXCELLENT CONDITION: CLEAN AND UNMARKED; VERY GOOD READING COPY
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Grappling with her lifelong phobia of anything slick, cheesy, or remotely claiming to provide self-empowerment, Beth Lisick wakes up on New Year's Day 2006 with an unprecedented feeling. She is finally able to admit to herself that she's grown tired of embracing the same old set of nagging problems year after year. She has no savings account. Her house feels unorganized and chaotic. She and her husband never hang out together. The last time she exercised regularly was as a member of her high school track team almost twenty years ago. Instead of turning to advice from the abundant pool of local life coaches, therapists, and healers readily available on her home turf of northern California, Beth confronts her fears head-on. She consults the multimillion-dollar-earning pros and national experts, not only reading their bestselling books but also attending their seminars and classes. In Chicago, she gets proactive with The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. In Atlanta, she tries to get a handle on exactly why "women are from Venus," and in a highly comedic bout on the high seas of the Caribbean, she gamely sweats to the oldies on a weeklong Cruise to Lose with Richard Simmons. Throughout this yearlong experiment, Beth tries extremely hard to maintain her wry sense of humor and easygoing nature, even as she starts to fall prey to some of the experts' ideas, ideas she thought she'd spent her whole life rejecting. Beth doesn't think of herself as the typical self-help victim. But is she?
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Fun, smart, laugh-out-loud read July 21, 2008 I thoroughly enjoyed & highly recommend this book. Beth is the kind of person I'd like to take out to lunch - a good heart, keen eye & irreverent wit.
One of the better books I've read in a while July 14, 2008 Irreverent, caustic, witty, original. I loved the premise of this book and laughed out loud at many parts - something that never happens for me. Beth is a great writer, and had some very illuminating serious thoughts in here as well as some wonderfully detailed funny human observations. I have to get the other book and find out if it's just as good!
Half a book is better than none. July 14, 2008 The premise was an interesting one -- best-selling author Beth Lisick would tackle one "personality flaw" per month for a year, enlisting the help of experts in the appropriate field. She had me at "Hello!"
However, though I loved Lisick's shoot-from-the-hip style and ease with words, something was seriously lacking. I never felt that she was giving it her "all," seriously attempting to make changes. The whole thing seemed sort of half-hearted. 30 days (sometimes less) is hardly enough time to make lasting life changes. And she never tells us what the actual results were. Whether we're talking about financial independence (Suze Orman) or exercising more (Richard Simmons), the reader is left hanging -- did Lisick improve her financial situation? Did she get more fit? Is her closet still organized???
I felt like I read the first half of a book that wasn't completed. And while it was quite enjoyable, I still feel like I got ripped off.
Skeptical of its value July 13, 2008 I can't vouch that this book is truly worth your while. You might not find yourself able to quite identify with the character and, as a result, not able to finish the book. Not recommended.
Not cool July 11, 2008 Beth Lisick takes an interesting premise and turns it into a thoroughly catty, whiny, unprofessional, rambling book. If you want memoir, there are better ones; if you're actually looking for a breakdown of what's available in the world of self-help, you absolutely won't get one, and you may just get attacked. Lisick probably intended to sound self-deprecating, but instead she comes off as hipper-than-thou, and ruthless in her criticism of middle-class Christians. Gaping sections of the book are devoted to explanations of why she doesn't have the time, money, or interest to follow any of the programs through to their natural completion. Much of the text focuses on how she squandered her book advance and was therefore unable join the self-help programs she was supposed to be writing about. Two months in a row, we get one-page mopes about why she was too tuckered-out or sickened to try the programs planned for those months. All the while she mocks people with more serious approaches to work, child-rearing, and money than her own, and portrays their programs as so obviously stupid as to instantly supply a book's worth of humor.
If you want to see this topic treated right, check out Practically Perfect in Every Way by Jennifer Niesslein.
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