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Deal Breakers: When to Work On a Relationship and When to Walk Away | 
| Author: Dr. Bethany Marshall Publisher: Simon Spotlight Entertainment Category: Book
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Media: Paperback Number Of Items: 1 Pages: 224 Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.4 Dimensions (in): 8 x 5.4 x 0.7
ISBN: 1416961062 Dewey Decimal Number: 646.77 EAN: 9781416961062 ASIN: 1416961062
Publication Date: May 6, 2008 Availability: Usually ships in 1-2 business days Shipping: Expedited shipping available Shipping: International shipping available Condition: Next day shipping.Shipping from NY.United States Expedited shipping available. International shipping available. See shipping rates.
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Product Description This is a book about men. Not all men, just emotionally unhealthy men. The ones who make you question, "Is it him or is it me? Am I making too big a deal out of this? I try to tell him how I feel, but he says I'm overreacting or needy or it's all my fault."Relationships are hard work, but how hard should they be? When do you know you are struggling too hard to make a relationship succeed? Deal Breakers is about getting out of this "relationship purgatory" -- where the present is unfulfilling and the future is the only thing you can hope for. But there is no magic future. If he won't work on problems today, it's unlikely they'll ever be resolved. And passively hoping for change will only cost you years of depression or expensive therapy. Dr. Bethany Marshall is here to remind women that relationships -- like business relationships -- are deals. In the business world, a deal breaker is the one nonnegotiable term that, if not agreed to, means the deal is off. But in the world of relationships, identifying your deal breaker can be much more promising, as it holds out the possibility of helping you to understand where the relationship has gone wrong, what needs to be done in order to make it better, and when to walk away because you're doing more work than him to fix it. A deal breaker is a boundary that smart people set for themselves because they know that falling in love can make them do stupid things. Through case studies, deal breaker scenarios, and suggested courses of action, Deal Breakers expertly guides frustrated women. By defining your deal breaker, you hold all the power to create the happiness you deserve.
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Completely worth the time to read May 21, 2008 This book is a quick read, is insightful and well-written.
I would recommend this book to any woman dating a man who isn't as engaged in the relationship as he should be. It provides clear examples that ring true and provides realistic ways of handling difficult dating situations.
That being said, I think the material should also be supplemented with some of the other classic books on dating, such as "Men Are Like Fish: What Every Woman Needs to Know About Catching a Man" by Steve Nakamoto, which provides a lot of insight into the behavior patterns or men and women that can make or break a relationship.
Be careful what you fish for! Set your sights on the right kind of man! Don't waste your time and resources on the ones that aren't likely to make you happy.
Happy Life April 9, 2008 A godsend for any person, male or female, who wants to have a truly happy and healthy relationship. This book is capable of helping you reach your full potential in love.
A MUST HAVE! March 27, 2008 0 out of 1 found this review helpful
This is a must have book for any woman! It is great information and I think it is right on target! It gave me great insight to my own probamatic relationship.
Read While the Pain is Fresh September 15, 2007 9 out of 9 found this review helpful
I read this book over the weekend. I was hurting, I wanted help and a friend had recommended this one. Although I already knew the relationship was a deal breaker from the gate and it was already over, I wanted to learn something about the mess I'd gotten myself into, and self-help books can definitely open the eyes. Love may be blind, but our eyes are widest open after we've just broken up with someone. That's the best time to read this book. Strike while the pain is fresh.
Dr. Marshall looks at 5 deal breaker categories, and articulates in plain English the problems and trouble signs. She also presents personal stories (you'll be able to relate) and deal breaker scenarios that she breaks down into "work on it" or "walk away." If your relationship shows up in these pages, you've got yourself a deal breaker. I find great comfort and relief in recognizing my situation on the page--if it's common enough to be included in a mass market publication, then there are a lot of folks out there in the same situation as me! Misery loves company? No; I'm just relieved to know I'm neither crazy nor alone in this. She also gives first impressions, warning signs, more warning signs, even more warning... you get the picture. For self-reflection, she includes the section "Who chooses this type of man?" There's also a chapter called "Getting off the merry-go-round" and 11 signs that you're on one. The book rounds out with tips on negotiating a new deal and breaking the deal when you have to.
This book helped me and I'm glad I read it right at the end of the relationship, because I was able to quickly recall the ex's hurtful behavior. After awhile, this won't hurt anymore, but if I forget what I went through, I'll do it again with a different man. That's why I say read while the pain is fresh, highlight and underline heavily, and make or break the deal.
Tons of Great Information September 4, 2007 2 out of 2 found this review helpful
I highly recommend this book. This book not only defines the different type of people you may be involved with but goes one step further in telling you why you may be attracting these individuals. Marshall's writing style is easy to understand and not all Phdish. A valuable for book for anyone who isn't in a great relationship.
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